Squirrel Is In

Hell I don't even know what to call this one...

Well hello everyone!  Hello, is there anyone out there reading my blog anymore?!  I am soooo sorry for not posting more often!   Will you forgive me if I give you a funny squirrel pic?  After the week I've had this will be me on Saturday morning.  This job is stressing me out!  It wouldn't be so bad but they were without a city clerk for over 3 months and the last one they had hadn't done anything in months.  I am desperately trying to get everything from the 06-07 fiscal year that ended 6/30/07 caught up before the auditors come next month.

Oh and a Rabid Squirrel update:  The BIOTCH took C-man to the hospital and had him checked for sexual assault and reported that my teenage son raped him.  C-man had no idea the she was telling the doctors and police this so the poor kid had to go through his THIRD sexual assault exam in 6 years (she has done this same thing twice before!), before he was able to tell the doctors and the police that nothing had happened and no one had EVER touched his privates.  The officers were so mad at her that they filed a case of filing a false police report on her but the D.A.'s office dismissed the case due to lack of evidence.  They never pick up charges on her because she works as an drug informant for their office.  BTW she said the sexual assault happened the same weekend she punched me.  AND the D.A. dismissed that case against her also!!!!!  So I'm doing the only thing I can to make her suffer which is not answering any of her phone calls and I DID NOT order the BIOTCH any school or football pictures!  HA take that!  The last time she picked up C-man for a visit Hubby said to her "don't you realize you are traumatizing him by having doctors probe him for sexual assault?!  When you know full well he wasn't assaulted!!"  She said "I don't care.  Don't you know you are traumatizing him by taking him away from me?!"  EXCUSE ME LADY, BUT THE KID CRIES EVERY TIME WE TELL HIM HE'S GOT TO GO WITH YOU!!!!!!!

Other news is that we are moving to a bigger house down the street!!! YEAH!  FUNNY SHE MADE THE ASSAULT REPORT THE DAY SHE FOUND OUT WE ARE GETTING A BIGGER AND NICER HOUSE.  CAN YOU SAY JEALOUS AND F*CKING CRAZY?

Sorry I started ranting and raving there for a minute.  I haven't had my blog posting outlet in a while and it all just started flowing out uncontrollably!

Trying to stop the insanity...

After yesterdays rather disturbing post I thought I would give an update on what I have done so far.  I wrote our attorney an e-mail, I tried to call but he was in court.  I told him what C-man told us about his mothers totally inappropriate behaviour concerning bathing him and such.  I told him that considering what transpired the last time we made a report (the judge got pissed and C-man didn't cooborate the story and Rabid got more visits than before) I wasn't sure what to do because I don't want to hurt our chances at winning custody being that the hearing is in less than 4 weeks.  I also asked him to give me the name of a good child therapist as I believe he really needs therapy.  We have been holding back with the therapy because I guess we just didn't like the idea of child therapy.  Making him feel like there was something wrong with him, I guess was our concern.  But honestly now because of his mothers behaviour towards him I am terrified he is going to grow up to be a serial killer who chooses his victims who closely resemble his mother, a child molester himself, or possibly someone like the character Anthony Hopkins portrayed in Pyscho, or God forbid another Ed Gein.  I haven't heard back from the attorney yet.

Is this molestation or not?

I am just sick!!!  Remember when we made that police report when C-man's grandmother dragged him out of a closet and banged his head on the bed frame and he told the police officer that his mother smokes weed?  The police officer turned it in to child services and we were so happy. Child services came to our house and C-man told her all about the abuse at his mothers house.  Well the other day WE get a letter stating that the abuse was NOT confirmed and the letter had not just C-mans name on it but MY teen sons name on it too and he wasn't even involved!! AND the letter was addressed to my husband and stated that although the abuse was not confirmed that they reccommend that since there is a history of drug use in OUR home that WE go to counselling.  All this shit happened at my husbands EX's house not OURS!  So I think theres got to be a mistake.  I call Child Services and talk to the supervisor.  She tells me that they know that it happened at her house but we get the same form letter she gets when the investigation is over.  I told her it makes it sound like WE are guilty of child abuse too!  I asked her what would have happened if the abuse at C-mans mothers home would have been confirmed.  She tells me that C-man would have been put into a foster home!!!  Even though the abuse didn't happen at our house and WE were the ones who reported it!!!

Now fastforward one week since I talked to her to last night.  C-man has a rash on his chest so I am asking him what he has put on his body (like cologne or lotion)  he tells me that his mother put blueberry lotion "all over me" after SHE gave him a bath.  He is almost 9 years old and I think it is totally bizzare that she is bathing him and putting lotion "all over" him.  So I asked where does she put lotion on you and he says "all over my naked body even my butt, balls and penis".  He then says he tells her not to but she says she has to so he'll "have soft skin".  Maybe i'm just a prude but I haven't put lotion on my sons private parts since he was about a year and a half old.  I want to call child services on her but my husband is terrified that they will put him in a foster home this time.  So he calls her and tell her not to do it and her response was to yell "I have been doing it since he was a baby and i'm NEVER going to stop!".  She then hung up on him.  My husband just wants to wait and have our lawyer ask her about it on the stand in 4 weeks during the custody hearing.  I am freaking out thinking the crazy bitch is molesting him. My husband got really upset with me when I said I was calling CPS.  He is scared because he says one of two things will happen if I call Child Services. 1. They tell us not to take him over there and they do an investigation.  The judge finds out we aren't letting him go to his mothers like the last time and he get's mad and gives C-man back to his mother and we lose custody.  Last time we turned her in to Child Services they told us not to let him go over there and then they said the abuse was unconfirmed the judge got mad and his mother got more visitation than before and we got seriously chewed out by the judge. OR 2. We turn her in and the findings are confirmed and C-man goes into foster care.  So if I call CPS my husband will probaly lose his son either way and he will divorce me.  He thinks it is not molestation but just a creepy thing she is doing and he thinks now that she knows he knows and is disaproving of it she will stop.  I can't sleep.  Am I making too big a deal of this?