Squirrel Is In

A look into the eyes of evil...

My hubby is out of town for the night and I made him take C-man out to his dads house.  I think the inlaws are thinking i'm being ridiculous but if it was my 9 yr old daughter making up lies about Hubby they wouldn't want me leaving him alone with her.  Why should it be any different because C-man's a boy?

How odd! When I posted this photo of Rabid Squirrel I had a link to the post back in Nov 06 when she got arrested and this mugshot was taken but I just noticed today that it wasn't there.  Anyway, this photo is of C-man's mother (slightly altered by moi).  She only spent one night in jail for stealing a cell phone from a cellular store.

This kids got some serious problems...

Today C-man went to see the psychiatrist. 

He immediatly started talking like a baby.

He tried to act like he had no clue why he was there.

He was asked about his mothers drug use and he said that the marijuana he found in her room was really cabbage and he put it in her room.

Whe he was asked about his mother abusing him he said he had no memory of it but when pushed he got mad and said "but it was only a small vacumm she threw at me, only two pounds!".

When asked why he was mad he said that it was because he wanted to stay at his mothers two weeks and his dads two weeks because he doesn't have time to have fun with his friends at his mothers over only a weekend.

In the car on the way there out of the dead silence with Boston playing in the background he said "If I promise to stop lying about you guys, will you promise not to make me get a hair cut?  Because I want to grow my hair long.".

The psychiatrist said he doesn't need meds right now but he referred him to a therapist with a PHD.  The next appointment is on January 24.

I'm numb with fear for the future.

Wow who knew typing bullets could feel so good...

Short summary of whats going on.

• On the 4th of January Rabid Squirrel took C-man in front of a judge for an emergency hearing saying we were physically abusing C-man
• C-man must have told the judge the truth that we were not abusing him because the judge threw it out
• Rabid's lawyer walked out of court and filed a motion to modify the custody agreement
• C-man came home on the 6th of January and acted as if nothing had happened
• When we asked him if he had been taken to see a lawyer he lied and said no
• At this point we had no clue that he had been taken in front of a judge
• When we asked him why he lied about me spanking him he said that his mother did not make him say it and he guessed he was just a lying little shit
• I got mad and told him that (my bio kids) would never make up lies about me and not to call me mom any more
• 15 minutes later he came into my room and told me his mother told him that if he made up lies about me that he would come live with her and they would get a lot of money from his dad and she would give him some of it
• I told him thank you for telling me the truth and told him it was wrong to lie about people and that it hurt my feelings really bad and if he was sorry for lying about me that he could call me mom again
• He's calling me mom again
• We made an appointment with a child psychologist and he and my husband and myself are going to see the doctor on Tuesday morning
• We have court on Valentines Day
• Our lawyer filed a reply to their RIDICULOUS child abuse claims and is asking that Rabid pay our legal bills and start paying child support
• One of the reasons for her motion to modify is that she states that my husband has remarried.  HELLO we have been married almost 6 freaking years!!
• Another claim she is making is that I and my husband are physically and emotionally abusing him
• She is asking for limited supervised visitation for my husband
• She is asking to claim C-man on her income taxes
• She hasn't filed income taxes in 7 years since she filed with my husband because she gets SSI and does not work
• The reason she wants it put in the papers that she can claim him is because she and C-man would be dependants of her mother whom she lives with and she wants her mother to be able to claim C-man on her taxes
• I just noticed that my husband did not ask his lawyer to ask for Rabid to get limited supervised visitation!!
• And last but not least by any stretch of the imagination...
• I AM SICK TO F*&*% OF ALL THIS DRAMA!

Please send all your prayers and good thoughts my way!!

C-man is coming home today at 6pm.  Rabid Squirrel called and told my husband that she is going shopping and will be driving past here on her way home so she will just bring him home instead of us having to pick him up.  C-man got on the phone with my husband and said something like "I love you daddy, I can't wait to see you." and "I can't wait to get home".  How freaking weird is THAT?!!!  Just over a week ago he is screaming he is living with his mother and now this.  Those two are up to something and I for one, am scared.  We pulled him from daycare and now one of his friends mother is going to be watching him after school.  That was one of the reasons he didn't want to live with us.  He hated that daycare.  He was very happy to hear that.  Then my husband called him the other day and told him that Santa brought a basketball goal and an air hockey table.  Maybe that's why he has changed his mind, I don't know.  At least that's what I'd like to think.  But honestly I think that he really wants to live with her and him and his mother have some evil plan cooked up.  My husband is calling the help line at work tomorrow about getting a referral for psychiatric care for the boy.  Maybe it isn't too late.